Ever listen to that old song, "Lookin for Love in All the Wrong Places"? The title alone tells of a common human error. We look for love in the wrong places, and we look for God in the wrong places. Some Christians will look for God where He does not reveal himself. They will try to seek God in election, or in predestination. God has not told us to look for him there.
It is in Christ that we are to look to for understanding. We see Father in Jesus, when he heals the sick; and when he chastens the pharisees. We see Father in Jesus, when he spends time with sinners. We see Father in Jesus, reconciling the whole world to himself while on the cross. We see Father in Jesus, triumphant and resurrected.